I'm a firm believer if you have a personal opinion about someone, that you should tell that person before you run your mouth behind their back. We are all entitled to think and feel how ever we like, but use some discretion with whom you share it with. I also think that as an adult you shouldn't run your mouth to a teen, bashing someone that is important to them. It's just wrong. I expect this type of behavior from kids, and teens NOT an adult. I'm very disappointed to say, that this person is not only an adult, but a family member of mine. Don't worry it gets worse. Not only did I not find this information out from the flappy mouthed adult, I found it out from the teen that had to listen to the bashing of someone they care about.
To the flappy mouthed disrespectful adult.
1. You are allowed to think and feel about me as you so choose.
2. Show me a little respect and have the balls to tell me how you feel about me YOURSELF.
3. Don't run your mouth about me. I don't go around spreading my opinion about you to everyone that will listen, and I expect the same respect.
4. Grow the hell up.
To the very mature teen that told me the truth.
1. Thank you
2. I don't expect you to stand up for me, but thank you for doing so.
3. I'm sorry you had to listen to this persons uninformed personal opinions about me, that they have formed before ever fully getting to know me.
4. I'm proud of you.
I have a hard time not confronting the individual who ran their mouth. I have decided not to, because if they didn't care enough about me to tell me themselves. They obviously won't care what I think about what they said anyway. Remember, once you say or do something you can't take it back. I might forgive, but I WON'T forget. Since you've said things behind my back once, I won't be surprised if you do it again. You aren't worth my time or energy. So I'm not going to be mad. I'm going to hold my head up high, and know that I am better then that. I won't stoop to your level to prove that you are wrong, because it's just a waste of my time.
